Rehearse for Negotiation Success

In sports, the more results-oriented the participants the higher the ratio of time spent in practice and rehearsal. Few would consider walking on to the playing venue unrehearsed. Yet, in our ENS negotiation strategy development consulting work, we find this is rather the norm than the exception.

In quizzing our clients as to why this is so, we hear the following three explanations.Typically, they say something like: “We’ve not really considered it, but it is a good idea”. Or, we often hear even experienced negotiators claiming: “I’d love to, but I simply don’t have the time.” Lastly, others express doubt that one can rehearse something so complex and unpredictable as negotiation.

Checking these explanations

People who explain their failure to rehearse have mostly been working on one or more of these assumptions:

  • The normative assumption – they assume rehearsal is not normal
  • The competency assumption – they assume they are ‘unconscious competents’
  • The unreality assumption – that role-playing is not useful because the behaviour of the other party cannot be realistically simulated.

To overcome the first assumption, we usually only need to outline our value-adding experiences with training teams of some of the world’s most consciously aware negotiators to engage in extensive rehearsal before major negotiations.

To overcome the second and third assumptions usually requires the demonstration of a powerful technique we have developed to train negotiators utilizing psychodramatic methodology. We call this technique Active Role Reversal (ARR). In demonstrating the technique, we can easily show individuals and teams that a prerequisite for improving performance is that through ARR:

  • They better understand their strengths and weaknesses as negotiators
  • They develop more flexible and more extensive new skills, or more intensive use of already existing skills; and importantly
  • They appreciate the need to prepare not only what they are going to say to the other party (the content), but also how and when they are going to say it (the process). This does not mean developing a script, but rather carefully strategizing several ‘what if’ options for managing the interaction.

In doing this by ARR (after we have ensured our client has done their research about the other party), we can show that in fact they do subconsciously have an adequate feel for how the other side is likely to react or initiate in even complex scenarios.

From our experience of over 40 years, we have found our Active Role Reversal (ARR) negotiation preparation technique to be to be the most effective.

To discuss this article in more depth and explore developing your negotiation skills and capabilities, please contact us via email or call +612 9299 9688.

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